BBO Discussion Forums: BBO Upgraded: ACBL IT, Friends/Followed/Ignored Players - BBO Discussion Forums

scarletv, on 2015-January-14, 15:20, said:

Thanks Scarlet, this was noted and will be fixed with next upgrade.

phoenix214, on 2015-January-14, 17:41, said:

Thanks, it's a bug. It applies for other variations of reserving seats/inviting people and it was noted. Will be fixed with next upgrade.

I think it is awful I do not want to know who considers me a friend/enemy etc and who I think of as a friend is MY business no one elses the old system was great why change it ?? I can work out for myself who I want to follow or ignore ~its unnecessarily complicated!! it wasn't "broken"so don't fix it!! when I look at my friends list that is what I want to see a list NO qualifications I will decide that! so please re-instate the old system ASAP

I don't think we were expecting anywhere near this level of reaction to the Friends feature, in these days of social networking. We thought we were the outlier, as most other services only have mutual friendship (e.g. on Facebook you send a friend request, but you don't become friends unless they accept it).

Largely, the point to being friends on Facebook is that doing so gives you access to each other's detailed information, posts, etc. Same for LinkedIn, I believe. No such usefulness exists on BBO.

Bbradley62, on 2015-January-15, 11:20, said:

We're planning on adding useful features for friends. This was just the first step towards that.

barmar, on 2015-January-15, 11:25, said:

That would have been nice info to include in the announcement of the new feature.

Bbradley62, on 2015-January-15, 11:26, said:

It was mentioned in the announcement before the upgrade.

http://webutil.bridg...tch.php?id=2447

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Another possibility is tweaking "Help Me Find a Game" -- friends can be given preference over people you just follow.

Now that we have the feature, we'll welcome feedback on how to use it.

barmar, on 2015-January-15, 10:40, said:

On Facebook you can follow someone without their permission. Personally I prefer googles circle model to the friend model. In g+ you get noticed when someone adds you but you can't see if they have any content which they share with closer friends than with you.

One reason for the notifications in g+ is that Google wants networks to grow but I think there is no need to notify you when someone adds you in return.

I sometimes tell people on bbo that I added them but mostly I just say hi once in a while and then maybe they will add me in return or maybe not. I don't have to know.

barmar, on 2015-January-15, 10:40, said:

Speaking for myself and those I have talked to this about, I think the real issue is that if we wanted Facebook, we'd just use Facebook.
One of the things I like about BBO is that I don't have to deal with all the social networking nonsense like adding/removing people, accepting/rejecting requests, and the drama associated with.
I want BBO to stay a bridge site, not Facebook/Twitter with a bridge theme, and this is the first step towards that, then myself and those I have talked to would be strongly against this movement.

My other issue is that it's essentially being forced onto us. On Bridge Winners for example, I do not follow people, I choose not to participate in that. Others can follow me, which is fine, but I choose not follow anyone back. I am just not interested in having a public list of who my friends are. The way the setup is now, I am forced to participate since I can no longer have a private friends list, since anyone can see if they are on it or not. So my choices are: Erase all my friends, accept that people are going to be upset/hurt because I deleted them, or never added them to begin with, or simply refrain from using BBO except when invisible.

The friends list was not broken, we don't need to know who is friends with who, that's what Facebook is for. I don't need access to private details and contact info because we are "friends." Why do we need this at all? This is a site to play bridge, and we already have these other tools available to us if we want to use them.

If we could put 2 different lists together and could mark someone as friend/following ourselves, THAT would be a nice feature. I could put people I talk to regularly, and play with on friends lists, while putting people I kib and recruit for teams in the following list, this would help my friends list not be as cluttered.

I hope you find this feedback helpful

I have one further suggestion (maybe along the lines of planned additions).

Currently, say you start a table, whether you are looking for a partner or opponents, you scroll through your friends list and ask if they would like to play. Or, you have the option of asking the Lobby.

I suggest a combination: ask idle-friends-in-lobby-or-kibbing.

barmar, on 2015-January-15, 11:33, said:

Gee - I'd rather you gave preference to people I just "follow" - I'd love to play with any of them.

Actually it is not much of a feature. I'd rather you gave me more options that I can set (Chat: yes/no; Email: yes/no; Notification of log-on: yes/no; Preference when finding a game: positive/neutral/negative etc) rather than making assumptions about my preferences based on somebody else's selection.

I really don't see what the big deal is here. It's not like on FB where your friends see your naked baby pictures or that time your other friend tagged you during spring break 2005 in cancun when you were sucking on a beer bong.

I'd like see Followers added as well I think that would be cool.

It seems that someone is really bored to have changed the "friends" concept. Why in the world did you make that change? I sm still trying to figure out the positive benefit of that. Can't you just put it back>

wynsten, on 2015-January-15, 17:52, said:

That's what we currently do. But given a choice between people you follow and people who also follow you back, wouldn't the latter be preferable, since they also want to play with you? That will make both of you happy, not just one of you.

Of course, we can do this without distinguishing the two lists in the Friends list.

I submitted this earlier but lost it, so it may be a duplication.
I do not like the new system. I liked "Friend" because (to me) it meant someone I would like to partner with. It didn't matter to me whether or not the person had "friended" me as well, so the Friend/Follow division in the "who's online" list could be eliminated.

Also: On the profiles I would prefer "Friend" to "Follow." Neutral is fine. "Ignore," however, doesn't do the trick. What we need in that space is the opportunity to indicate that we do not wish to partner with that person again. I don't see the need to indicate that we don't want chats from the person; however, there are many reasons why I would like for bbo to prevent my being assigned to partner again with a person with whom I do not have a good fit. The term "Enemy" is too strong, as my p and I may get along beautifully but just have a terrible mis-fit with respect to our bidding and play. Perhaps changing Enemy to another term---e.g., mismatch, negative, no play, . . . (I don't like any of those, but you get the idea) would work---as long as bbo blocks that match for the future.

Thanks for the opportunity to provide feedback!

I like the new version, it's a definite improvement and I can't understand what "invasion of privacy" are people complaining about. All that's changed is that now people can see when you're not following them back, so what? It's not like you cared that much about them to begin with, you wouldn't even see them being online unless you went looking for them, but now you worry that they can tell?

Thanks for the work you put into the new version, looking forward to future releases.

jnetp, on 2015-January-16, 14:04, said:

The ignore (enemy) function is meant to block chat, messages, invitations or requests from persons that you do not wish to be bothered by (usually for rudeness). That is what ignoring a player does, completely ignores anything coming from that player to you.

What you describe would be a different function, a way to mark a player as incompatible. But you can do that by assigning that player to a category created by you and named any way you wish. Unless you are using Help Me Find A Game to play, you will be able to see those players before joining a table, or in partnership desk for tourneys, while not blocking their chat too.

barmar, on 2015-January-16, 11:04, said:

There you go again, making unwarranted inferences. They don't necessarily want to play with me. They just want me in the list of people that you have decided to label "friends".

wynsten, on 2015-January-17, 12:38, said:

This is why social network operation is so unpredictable: The way designers intend a feature to be used and the way people actually use it are often quite different. Statements such as "But given a choice between people you follow and people who also follow you back, wouldn't the latter be preferable, since they also want to play with you? That will make both of you happy, not just one of you," which despite its good intention can come across as "You're doing it wrong," indicate an insufficient understanding of this dynamic. (FWIW this is one reason larger networks roll out features slowly to subsets of users, to see how they work in practice, but BBO is surely not structured for this to be possible.)

BBO is an odd duck, trying to find different ways for users to interact but having a strong philosophical bias against giving them options. The friend/follow arrangement may be a place where those tendencies can't be resolved.