PhilKing, on 2012-December-20, 12:27, said:
Obviously partner does not know whether Jxxx of hearts turns into a trick either. But as 5♠ bidders we are willing to punt a practical and rather obvious sacrifice, and take the blame when it is wrong. The passers are usually just winning the post mortem.
These kind of comments are not really fair, I would pass since I think it is right (Qx of hearts seems very big defensively, it will often combine for an extra trick with partner if he has any honor, and even if he has no honor it might take a trick. Also, a bad trump split might cause problems even if partner just has Jxxx of diamonds, for instance on the lead of spade spade if he can overruff dummy or something). Saving with a likely spade trick and Qx of hearts and a bad trump split is just not obvious to me, feels like 3 tricks a decent amount of the time.
Usually when we have down 1 partner will have enough to beat them (though he could have good and long clubs and this is not true, as you pointed out). I think our big upside in saving will come from down 300 into their make which is not all that unlikely, and is almost as big of a gain as a phantom save is a loss. It is not obvious to me at all what is right but I'm not trying to win the post mortem, I don't see how I will win the post mortem if our save was going for 300 and they make.
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Why would we take the blame? Isn't it dishonest to take the blame for a decision that you even in retrospect think was right even though it worked out poorly? Do you apologize every time you take a finesse and lose to the stiff king?
If I make an unclear decision and it doesn't work I pretty much always say sorry. This is more of a social thing obviously, otherwise I would never say sorry because presumably I always tried to make the right decision and did my best. Playing in a partnership with you Han with Rationalist Standard I would of course never say sorry in that spot