barmar, on Mar 16 2006, 05:16 PM, said:
Now I feel bad for having emailed my partner asking him to check here. I was expecting criticism, not insults. He's a decent player, hardly a beginner, and I've been happy to have him as a regular partner for the past 4-5 years. He made a mistake in a relatively uncommon auction with freakish hands -- he thought he was reasonably putting on the brakes when we were in a total misfit.
And I didn't realize 3♣ was a game force in our auction, I thought I was forcing to game when I bid over his 3♥ (since there's no room for both forcing and invitational bids there, it should be assumed to be forcing).
I am sorry that you felt that this question, of the forcing nature of the 3
♠ call, was an 'advanced' or 'expert' issue.
I suspect that this is the result of unrestrained self-ranking inflation: the sort of thing that results in the best couple of players on even a mediocre professional sports team being called 'superstars'.
I am technically WC by BBO standards. I consider myself an expert and I have played with, been teammates of and played against players I consider to be truly WC, so I think I have earned some right to speak on the rankings issue.
Why and when did it become more important to call oneself advanced or expert than it is to try to improve?
The player who passed 3
♠ committed a beginner's error. Okay, today we don't like to hurt anyone's feelings: let's say he committed an intermediate error. But for pete's sake, why try to argue that that error was the type of error that an advanced player could easily make? It is not. It is a beginner/intermediate eror.
Now, does that mean that the player who made it is an idiot or a beginner or an intermediate?
Absolutely not. I have made and no doubt will continue to make bonehead bids and plays, and until dementia hits me, I will (I hope) remain, on the whole, an expert. Every player of every level makes mistakes that are, in theory, beneath him or her. Experts play badly, everyone else plays worse, to paraphrase one of the greatest players of all time.
Your partner may have hit a hole in an otherwise admirable understanding of the game. The unusual auction makes that a possibility. He may well possess many or almost all of the attributes of an advanced or expert player: but he made a beginner's mistake. I was not insulting him or you when I characterized it as such.
I began as a beginner. By the time I was (looking back) charitably of an advanced status, I was sure I was an expert: I had merely lacked the stage upon which to prove my obvious ability. Then I got a chance to start playing with and against experts and soon realized how utterly wrong I had been in my self-assessment. It was both a painful and a rewarding experience, painful to my always oversized ego and rewarding in that several of these true experts kept playing with me despite my poor play, and eventually I learned not only more about the game but also that the more one learns, the more there is to learn. And one does not learn by flattering oneself. Refusing to accept that an advanced player ought to know that this 3
♠ bid is forcing is such flattery.
'one of the great markers of the advance of human kindness is the howls you will hear from the Men of God' Johann Hari